Kuch din poorva ek khabar TV aur akhbaro me bahut aa rahi thi ki Aiim New Delhi ki ek Dr. Aatm hatya kar li aur wazah uske pati ka samlengik hona, is vishya par isse poorva bhi maine ek lekh likha tha, aur aaj ka ye lekh bhi usse jyada bhinn to nahi hai,
Sabse pahle to janna ye hai ki samlegikta kya hai? Kya ye bimari hai ya soch? Aur samkengiko par vibhhinn prakar ke atyachaar kaha tak jayaz hain?
Sabse pahle to ye jaan lijiye samlengikta bimari na ho kar ek soch hai, bilkul waisi hi jaise samanya vyaktiyo ki soch, han inka vyakti aakarshan viprit lingi na ho kar samlingi hota hai kintu ye bimari nahi hai,
Manovigyan ke anusaar kuch samlengik vyaktiyo ko samanya banya ja Santa lekin uske hame ye janna hai ki vyakti janmse samlingi hai ya vayask hone par wo hua,
Yadi vyakti janm se samlingi hai to usse us jaise vyaktyon se milne aur apne hisab se zindagi jine ki hame izazat deni chahiye kyoki agar ham agar uske sath jabardasti karte hai aur apne hisaab se usse dhaalne ki koshish karate hai to ye ek manviye atyachaar hoga, aur aise me agar uska vivah viprit lingi se kara bhi diya to natiza WO hi hoga jo Aiims ki Dr. Ka dilli me hua, isliye hame aur hamare samaj ko dherya se baith kar is gambhhir vishya par nirnay Lena hoga, aur samlingiyo ko apradhik drishti se dekh unhe samaj se bahuskrit karna band karna hoga,ye na bhoole unhe janm dene wale 2 viprit lingi manushya hi the,
Iske saath jin samlingiyo ko thik kiya ja sakta hai unke vishya me jaane, Jo vyakti balayavastha me samanya the kintu vayask ho kar samlingi ban gaye, aise me unke jivan me hui is beech ki ghatnao ka moolyankan karna hoga, samanya tah unhe dhokha-fareb aur unki bhawnao ko viprit lingi be aahat kiya hoga, aur prem tatha sadbhawna ka bhaaw unhe samlingi se mila hoga, samanya taur par aise vyaktiyo ko pariwar ke paraspar sneh aur uchit dekhbhaal se thik kiya ja sakta hai, isme dost, pariwar aur aaspas ka mahol kaafi had tak sahyogi ho sakta hai, unke paraspar prem aur sahyog se vyakti ka aatm vishwaas badega aur vakt ke saath dhire-dhire wo samanya jivan jine lagega, par isme sabhi ko poorn sahyog karna hoga,
Par iske saath hi ye hame avashya jaan lena chahiye ki samlengikta us vyakti ko janm se hai ya vyask ho kar usme pariwartan aaya hai, aur iske saath hi ye avashya jaan lena chahiye samlengikta soch hai na ki bimari..
Sabse pahle to janna ye hai ki samlegikta kya hai? Kya ye bimari hai ya soch? Aur samkengiko par vibhhinn prakar ke atyachaar kaha tak jayaz hain?
Sabse pahle to ye jaan lijiye samlengikta bimari na ho kar ek soch hai, bilkul waisi hi jaise samanya vyaktiyo ki soch, han inka vyakti aakarshan viprit lingi na ho kar samlingi hota hai kintu ye bimari nahi hai,
Manovigyan ke anusaar kuch samlengik vyaktiyo ko samanya banya ja Santa lekin uske hame ye janna hai ki vyakti janmse samlingi hai ya vayask hone par wo hua,
Yadi vyakti janm se samlingi hai to usse us jaise vyaktyon se milne aur apne hisab se zindagi jine ki hame izazat deni chahiye kyoki agar ham agar uske sath jabardasti karte hai aur apne hisaab se usse dhaalne ki koshish karate hai to ye ek manviye atyachaar hoga, aur aise me agar uska vivah viprit lingi se kara bhi diya to natiza WO hi hoga jo Aiims ki Dr. Ka dilli me hua, isliye hame aur hamare samaj ko dherya se baith kar is gambhhir vishya par nirnay Lena hoga, aur samlingiyo ko apradhik drishti se dekh unhe samaj se bahuskrit karna band karna hoga,ye na bhoole unhe janm dene wale 2 viprit lingi manushya hi the,
Iske saath jin samlingiyo ko thik kiya ja sakta hai unke vishya me jaane, Jo vyakti balayavastha me samanya the kintu vayask ho kar samlingi ban gaye, aise me unke jivan me hui is beech ki ghatnao ka moolyankan karna hoga, samanya tah unhe dhokha-fareb aur unki bhawnao ko viprit lingi be aahat kiya hoga, aur prem tatha sadbhawna ka bhaaw unhe samlingi se mila hoga, samanya taur par aise vyaktiyo ko pariwar ke paraspar sneh aur uchit dekhbhaal se thik kiya ja sakta hai, isme dost, pariwar aur aaspas ka mahol kaafi had tak sahyogi ho sakta hai, unke paraspar prem aur sahyog se vyakti ka aatm vishwaas badega aur vakt ke saath dhire-dhire wo samanya jivan jine lagega, par isme sabhi ko poorn sahyog karna hoga,
Par iske saath hi ye hame avashya jaan lena chahiye ki samlengikta us vyakti ko janm se hai ya vyask ho kar usme pariwartan aaya hai, aur iske saath hi ye avashya jaan lena chahiye samlengikta soch hai na ki bimari..
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